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I’ve always been a pump kind of girls. To me, pump shoes are classic and the little black dress of shoes, you can never go wrong with pump shoes. I did venture out to the gladiator type a while back. A pair of flats sandal to take me around Europe, because I knew my clothes were gonna be substandard so I relied on statement sandals to spice up the look.

I know shoes or fashion in general is an extension of ourselves. We can express our personality through the style and the color that we chose. But it wasn’t until last month, when my mom was hospitalized for a week that I suddenly had the urge to buy specific shoes in conjunction with what I felt inside. Being the oldest daughter, of course I was the one who was in charge for everything. I won’t be going into details here but in addition to my mom being sick,  let’s just say there was a challenge I need to tackle by myself (with the husband supporting from behind). And somehow, I found consolation in those fierce-looking shoes. It felt as if those can give the power and the strength I needed and those straps hug my feet comfortably as if it was to say everything would be okay.  A very supportive bunch indeed :D And those tangled straps are also a reflection of what I felt inside; complicated.

Here’s from left to right:

  • Aldo wedges. At 70% off. I took them home in a heart beat.
  • Another Aldo, but these ones are heels. Got them from Lynda Ibrahim, a Closet Quickies customer who wrote for Fashionese Daily too a couple of times.
  • UP Anjani Wedges. Gotta love the batik straps. I haven’t had luck with local shoes before, but these ones are so comfy and light that I could wear them all day. The craftsmanship is superb too.
  • Jeffrey Campbell Ibiza. I’ve always loved Jeffrey Campbell shoes, they are quality shoes that is reasonably priced. The nude/raw leather wins it for me because even though they get dirty easily, they will turn into honey color with each day I wear them and will be a showcase of where I’ve been and what I’ve been through.

By the way, I didn’t get those when my mom was in the hospital though. Those were acquired afterward.  Now thank God mom is back in her active mode and I couldn’t be happier (because she is healthy..and because my shoes family are growing :D )


13 Comments to “When Shoes Become an Extension of Oneself”

  1. Herna Kholil says:

    Han, that’s exactly what I felt three years ago when my mom passed away. It’s kinda weird that I found consolation on my losing by purchasing shoes on the first place. Then, I’ve realized that it was still normal since it didn’t do any destruction to my bank account :-) . My late-mom was a shoeholic, unfortunately her feet weren’t my size, who was so fond of her collection. Her shoes are still taken care well by my maid. I guess it’s my legacy to continue her passion towards shoes (nyari alasan :) ). Otherwise, my partner never complains about my habit so far hehehe

    • Hanzky says:

      So sorry to hear about your mom passed away *hugs*. Yes, it’s much butter to find comfort on the good looking shoes (that’ll make us look good) other than the not so healthy addiction. Aww that’s so sweet that you still keep the shoes, seru yaa ngebayangin the step that you mom have taken with those shoes :) . Maybe when you have a daughter, you can pass them to her :) .

  2. lena says:

    i have those anjani black lace-ups! i don’t really like the batik though, having looked at it first hand. i think imma change it, perhaps batik or perhaps velvet.
    agree though, that these shoes are super light and super comfy, and it’s true to size!

  3. dinanita says:

    me want anjani!!!!! black or beige ya??? still haven’t make the decision….

    • Hanzky says:

      Perlunya sepatu warna apa Din? :D . Kalo untuk yang bahannya patent gini mendingan item kali ya, soalnya kalo beige/putih akan gampang kena tanda/coretan.

  4. Affi says:

    You make shoe-shopping sound so poetic han :D I usually just buy whichever fancies my taste and suits my budget :P Btw glad your mom is better and back to her old, active self. I can’t imagine how I’d feel if my mom is hospitalized, I’ll definitely be devastated!

    • Hanzky says:

      Lebay yah Fi? :D . Yes she is back to her active self. She has visited Mangga Dua yesterday, Pasar Kenari the day before, Tanah Abang today and Umrah trip on Sunday. Definitely back :D

  5. Rika says:

    Mbak Hani ditunggu TO-nya pake sepatu-sepatu cantik di atas :D

  6. utie says:

    Hani!!!! gw suka yang Jeffrey Campbell!! ntar klo dah bosen gw siap menampung ya :D

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